| Redeemer Lutheran Church 1084 W. Bullard Ave. Fresno, CA 93711 Phone: (559) 439-8500 Fax: (559) 439-8585 office@redeemerfresno.com The Reverend Clarence Eisberg Phone: (209) 725-9082 Cell: (209) 631-3108 pastor@redeemerfresno.com Worship ~ 8:30 a.m. & 10:00 a.m. Family Ministries ~ 10:00 a.m. Holy Communion ~ 2nd & 4th Sundays |
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The Reverend Clarence Eisberg |
June 15, 2008 |
"A Father's Gift" |
| The story of Jairus is a wonderful story about a father’s love for his daughter. His Jewish religious leader to seek out Jesus. The parents had done what they could but what they could do had not been enough. Humanity has never built a tool capable of measuring the immensity of pain in those hearts. But can see is love. There are few words that we can speak to parents who have lost a child. We would never dare speak the words recorded in Luke 8. “Talitha cumi”. Tow words: “talitha cumi”. man from demonic possession. He was returning to Capernaum. Jairus found him and pleaded, “Come help my daughter.” The bible does not talk of insurance policies, no scheduling of an appointment with Jesus. It says: Jesus went with him. The distance was short. The father’s heart had to be crying out….as they tried to make it through the crowd….”hurry, hurry, hurry”. The clock was ticking. Jesus was interrupted, not only by the large crowds but a woman who reached out to touch his garment to be healed. Now I don’t know if he saw the men, the men from the synagogue coming to meet him, but I do know what they told him. “Your daughter is dead; don’t bother the teacher any more.” Jesus ignored the men. He went to the house. The weeping and mourning had already begun. Bad news travels fast in a small town. Jesus, accompanied by the parents and a few disciples, went to the side of the little girl who still lay upon her death bed. Jesus broke the silence. He stepped to the side of the girl, took her hand. Jesus spoke. “Talitha cumi” Little girl, wake up! And she did! Jesus did what only the Son of God alone can do! Jesus gave life where death once reigned. This was not the first time Jesus restored a child to a grieving family. Outside the city of Nain, he had given a young man back to his mother. It would not be the last time he would reunite a family. At a cemetery near Jerusalem he shouted “Lazarus, come out” Lazarus, 3 days dead, came forth and was restored to his family. A father’s love brought Jesus to his house and his daughter was restored to the family. This is father’s day and although we know that not all fathers demonstrate love towards their children and wife, we still honor fathers. God wants fathers to guide, direct and demonstrate love for their children. Father’s have a critical role in family life. US News and World Report, October 3, 2005 carried an article by John Leo that verifies what happens when fathers are not present in the home. The article quoted George Will, Gary Bauer and Thomas Bray, all noted columnist who had written about the results of hurricane Katrina. They noted that government figures showed that 76 % of births to Louisiana African Americans are to unmarried women and probably more than 80% in New Orleans. George Will wrote: “This translates into large and constantly renewed cohort of lightly parented adolescent males, which translates into chaos in neighborhoods and schools, come rain or come shine.” Two decades of research produced a consensus among social scientists….that family structure has a serious impact on children….in other words we are not talking about a problem of race but a problem of family formation or the lack of it. A policy brief from the Washington based Institute for Marriage and Public Policy notes that 19 of 20 studies noted that…..single parent families had a higher rate of crime and delinquency. John Eldridge in his book: Wild at Heart writes: “A boy learns who he is, from a man or a company of men. He learns self esteem and worth from a loving father. …. A daughter learns that she has value and worth when she knows she is loved by her father. “A little girl looks to her father to know if she is lovely. She wants to know if her father will fight for her. This is the core to her self identity, the way she bears the image of God.” Jairus fought for his daughter. Passive fathers, delinquent fathers only leave their children with a sense of abandonment. Any man can be a father. It takes someone special to be a Dad. Dad, is a son’s first hero, a daughter’s first love. Rose O’Kelly wrote: “Your Dad is the man who does all the heavy shoveling for your sand castle, and then tells you you’ve done a wonderful job.” This is Father’s Day. I want to go on record saying that Dad’s are critical to the raising of sons and daughters. I don’t need to have that verified by Government studies. The Lord God knows that neither fathers nor mothers are handed an owner’s manual or a quick start guide when they first become parents. They usually model what they learned from their parents. God provides priorities as what we are to say and what we are to do. He instructed his O.T. people too: “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds, tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talk about them when you sit down at home, when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up….” With those words God was letting his fathers and mothers know that no matter what they say or don’t say, no matter what they give their children, they must first and foremost give them His word. Toys will not fill the spiritual hole in a child’s heart. God wants and expects Christian fathers to be the prime protectors, the first line of defense for the children placed in their care. Fathers are to leave their children a legacy of love. They are to provide a safe haven in a world that would destroy the child’s self worth and self esteem. Satan knows this is God’s desire, which is why Satan so often makes Christian father’s his first and foremost targets. The forces of darkness bring their best and most effective weapons against Christian fathers. Seduction and sin, complacency or passivity, self absorption will all lead to discord, disharmony and insecurity. If Satan can stop a father from giving his children attention and a structured frame work for right and wrong behavior, the you have chaos, and anarchy that will spread to all of culture. Bill Cosby is trying to stop the decline…but he is being poo pooed by his own people. It is important that we pray daily…”deliver us from the evil one.” Norman Wright in his book “A Dad-Shaped Hole in My Heart” notes that Jairus, an official at the synagogue, came to Jesus with a desperate plea for his daughter, who was deathly ill. Wright reminds us that daughter were not highly valued in Jairus’s day (the same problem exists today in China, Tibet and Inda.) By seeking out Jesus he was exposing himself to ridicule for going to so much trouble over on insignificant girl. God wants us to know that his love is available for those who have been wounded by an absent or passive father. Our Father in Heaven is like Jairus…he goes all out for his sons and daughters. Many daughters and sons do feel abandoned and forgotten by their fathers. Whether their fathers are simply emotionally absent or are physically absent due to divorce, or death. An emptiness is left in the heart where a father’s love should be. There is only one perfect father: Our Father in heaven. Unfortunely a bad experience with an earthly father can cause anger or resentment and it is difficult to transfer trust to the one who calls himself “Our Father.” Now, I know that our earthly fathers are not perfect but you can help your son or daughter have self esteem, security, personal value. Years ago, when I first came to Redeemer, on Father’s day I asked all the fathers and grandfathers to come forward and have a seat around the altar. I told them that they were like athletes in a relay race. Every father held a baton in his hand. The baton symbolized their commitment to their wife, the values of the Christian faith. I then simply asked…. Will you complete a successful hand off to the next generation? Get involved with your children. Set godly examples. Worship God. Complement your daughter. Complement your son. They want to know. Will you fight for me. Will you play with me. Do you love me. Pass the baton. |
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